Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Nigeria @ 54


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 Our dear country Nigeria is, today, 54 years old! Happy Independence Day!
This Great country has gone through various ups and downs within these 54 years, most of our woes were caused, primarily, by ourselves.
Nigeria, has one of the best innovative brains/minds, in he world, but corruption of our leaders, will never allow these minds access the helms of affair of this country.

It is quite unfortunate that those who have been our leaders over 50 years ago are still directly, in the corridors of power.
'Children today are leaders of tomorrow' has become a cliche, because those who have been controlling Nigeria, those Names you and I heard back then,over 30 years of my life, are still the same names we hear till date.
The youths are not considered to be fit, to run the affairs of this country. The greedy leaders that we know are still in power, and now We are celebratig 54. Boko-haram has become an epidemic disease, even more like an hurricane, sweeping off Nigerians who are supposed to be the future of this country.
Inspite of all these, God still hold us together in peace against the evil desires of certain leaders who are peadophiles in all ramification.


We shall continue to pray and hope until the wind of change blows, and wipe out every evil syndicate against Nigeria.
Arise Nigerian Youths and take your place.
God bless Nigeria!

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Greatness


'Despise not the days of little beginning.................' Toil and stop not, cos a day shall come when all your 'little toiling' shall Make you #Great.
Consistency is the key.
Greatness starts from the bottom and Aim High even beyond the sky.
The Foundation of the highest Sky-Scrapper in the world begins from digging dip down.
Grave,which swallows the dead,however,is the only digging scenario that begins from the top.
Think about this!
#BeConsistent #FoodForThought #IHaveTheSeedOfGreatnessInMe #IAmHeadingForTheTopSlowlyAndSteadily #AllThingsArePossible #InspireLagosConference2014

Friday, September 19, 2014

The Fear and Grief of Ebola


 At least eight Ebola aid workers and journalists were reportedly murdered and dumped in a latrine in a remote village in Guinea in a frightening example of the growing distrust locals have of foreigners coming to help stem the mushrooming health crisis.
These deaths are believed to be the first resulting from resistance to international efforts to curb the Ebola outbreak in the region, Reuters reported. Other aid teams have been forced to turn back by crowds in several locations, and a treatment center in Monrovia, Liberia was attacked and looted.
Villagers in an area near the city of Nzerekore used machetes and clubs to attack eight members of a team trying to raise awareness about the disease, officials told the BBC.
"The eight bodies were found in the village latrine," Albert Damantang Camara, a spokesman for Guinea's government, told Reuters on Thursday, adding that they had been "killed in cold blood by the villagers."
Prime Minister Fofana reported that the aid mission included "local administrators, two medical officers, a preacher and three accompanying journalists." They were reportedly attacked by a large crowd, throwing stones, from the village of Wome.
The delegation had arrived on Tuesday to do disinfection work and educate people about preventing Ebola, but residents pelted them with rocks and beat them, according to the Los Angeles Times, citing Guinean radio reports.  The group fled into the bush. One journalist who escaped said she heard people looking for her while she hid, according to the BBC.
On Thursday, the bodies were found in the septic tank of a village school in the village, according to Camara. Six people have been arrested and the village is now reportedly deserted. Although a motive for the murders has not been confirmed, a BBC report says many villagers have accused the health workers of spreading the disease.

Friday, August 1, 2014

The Ebola Virus,What You Need To Know

The Ebola Virus,What You Need To Know!


 Dear Friends,

The outbreak of the dreadful Ebola virus in West Africa is no longer a news, as it has become famous suddenly among the poor, the average and the rich.

However, in spite of its fame We must refuse to celebrate her, rather, we should sort every means to destroy and alienate her from our midst.

The worst part of it is that, it kills her victims between 2 days and 21 days. She has no regard, whatsoever, For Age, Sex, Race , Profession or Locality. 

No Vaccine or Cure have been detected yet for this infamous Ebola
Vox News described the virus as the deadliest in human history having killed 79% of her victims.
Report says, 'Scientist are working round the clock to come up with a vaccine to reduce the rate of the infection.' We sincerely hope they find one soonest.

Key facts ( Courtesy W.H.O)
  • Ebola is introduced into the human population through close contact with the blood, secretions, organs or other bodily fluids of infected animals such as Chimpanzee,Fruit bats, Monkeys Forest Antelope and so on. 
  • Ebola is also transmitted through infected human beings via contact with infected skin,blood, bodily fluids (sweat and urine) etc 
  • Men who have recovered from the disease can still transmit the virus through their semen for up to 7 weeks after recovery from the illness.


Nevertheless, there are certain measures you and I can and must  take to refrain this deadly virus:

  1. Avoid shaking hands with strangers and those whom you have seen for a long time, and whose whereabouts you couldn't ascertain. 
  2.  Avoid body contacts ,in a populated area like market place, commercial buses, by wearing long sleeves shirts or blouses. 
  3. Wash your hands regularly with soap and water after handling any objects outside your home or office. 
  4. Avoid consuming any 'bush-meat' for no. 
  5. Be careful of the places where you eat apart from your home,E.g 'mama-put', you might be consuming bush-meats (like bats or monkeys) ignorantly.
Above all the precautions stated above, Pray Earnestly to God for His Protection over you and yours.


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Help Keep Nigeria safe from The Dreadful Ebola Virus!



To your Safety,
Adeiye J.D
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Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Bad Friends,Bad Influence


Bad Friends,Bad Influence.

'Bad association corrupts good manners', this statement remains the truth forever.
There are certain friends you should never have anything to do with, more than saying 'hi'. They are a bunch of bad influences,  set to corrupt and even destroy you.

I would like to share one  of them with you here:

The Dream Extinguishers:
These kind of friends are everywhere around us. They usually appear to be friendly and very interested in your dreams, all these are done in a bid to get you to unveil your precious dreams, then Boom! 'They' work out several means to destroy your dreams and get you down the drain.

'They' usually started out by advising you (influencing) to go slowly and steady because 'life in itself is vanity'. Though, you might want to say there is an atom of truth in that quotation, but stretch a bit further in your discussion then you will soon  discover the aim of such statement.

Such friends prefer you remain on the same level or perhaps,have you below them. You require the Spirit of God and an unfailing Intuition,to discover and escape from their evil traps.

The bad news is that some of these bad influence of a friend can go any length to ensure you don't achieve your goals in life. I mean as far as killing you physically and spiritually.

What, then is my advice?

D and F are the keys. 

Discover such friends and Flee.

Your dreams are too precious to be truncated by mere influence of NFAs, No Future Ambition pals.

Protect your Dream Jealously!

To your Success,
Adeiye Joseph
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Wednesday, June 18, 2014

7 Secrets to a happy life



7 Secrets to
a Happy Life
We all want to be happy, but something always gets in the way. There is never enough time... or money. Somebody is always failing to do what they are "supposed" to do... or not do. Our boss, our spouse, our kids, our parents, our friends, government, big business, especially when you consider the state of our beloved Nation, Nigeria. You’d want to conclude that life can’t be better but bitter. Massive protest here and there, "They" aren't doing it right. "They’’ failed us. We are angry, and we have a right to be angry. But is that righteous anger making us happy?
Those that we assume that are making us ‘bitter’ are enjoying lives secretly, hence, our happiness in life must be a personal decision.
Happiness is not something anyone else can give us... or take away from us.
Happiness is what we make of our lives... or don't. Whatever our circumstances, we can create a joyful life... or a miserable life. It is up to us.
Here are my 7 Secrets for a Happy Life: Read it on www.selfgrowth.com,got inspired and thought of sharing it with you, enjoy:

1. Have Self-Respect: If I don't love and respect myself, who will? It all starts right here with ME. If I think that I'm a pretty good person, it doesn't much matter what anyone else thinks. And the irony is that once I like myself, most everyone else will like me too. People enjoy being around people who speak well of themselves - not in an arrogant boastful way, but with honest self-appreciation.

2. Forgive Everyone for Everything: Angry and happy don't mix. Flush out the anger, and the happy has a place to put down roots. Until we forgive everyone for everything, we hold on to anger and resentment. Once we forgive, we can become happy. Forgiving is not a gift to someone else - Forgiving is a gift to ourselves - a great gift - the gift of happiness.

3. Be Grateful for All of Life: Each of us has been infinitely blessed - beginning with the gift of life. Whatever may appear to be missing or broken on any particular day, our glass is not half full, it is 99.9% full. More practically, when we feel ungrateful, we become unhappy. When we choose to feel and express our gratitude, the act of feeling and speaking our thanks creates happiness within us. The more we express our gratitude, the more we have for which to be grateful.
Today and every day, take time to celebrate life - whether an hour's meditation in a quiet natural space or a brief moment's conscious pause to breathe deeply and celebrate gratitude for life
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4. Choose Happiness: Everything in life is a choice. There is never anything we ever "need" to do. Every action and thought is a choice and has consequences - pleasant or unpleasant. Whether you go to work today, change jobs, smile at the bank teller, order fried fish, yell at your kids, complain about life, and hold a daily celebration of gratitude for life - they are all choices. Happiness is a choice. Stay alert and make conscious choices for happiness.

5. Begin at the End: You can never reach your destination if you don't have a destination. Decide what accomplishments you want recorded on your tombstone. Take a whole quiet day to consider your life. Be very clear that your happiness does NOT depend on reaching your goal. In fact, it's the reverse. Your happiness depends on accepting whatever life throws at you while you walk the path toward your goal. What is important for your happiness is having a goal, and working toward it.
6. Start Today: Whatever you want in life, start today. Not tomorrow - today. Let it be a small beginning - a tiny beginning. Your happiness depends on starting today - every day.

7. Life is NOT "Supposed to be Fair": Know that there is no single way that life is "supposed" to be. Demanding that life meet our expectations is a sure fire recipe for a miserable existence. Life is a game with no rules. Life just happens to us regardless of our best intentions. Our only path to happiness lies in being open to receiving whatever life throws at us - with Gratitude.

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Saturday, June 7, 2014

Get Rich or Die Trying?

Hello Friends,

Getting rich and making all the money in the world is not only good but awesome. No one in life will ever aspire to become poor, certain people refer to Winners' Chapel as Rich people's church.
When Bishop Oyedepo, was contacted in relation to this statement, his answer was ''Yes,Winners' Chapel is a rich-people's church, Does anyone enjoy being called 'The Poor'?''

The point here is, I also want to be rich and famous, but not in compliance with the topic,which is a slogan of an American Hip-hop Artist,Get Rich or Die Trying.

So many youths have been mislead somehow by this slogan ,Money, they thought, is the only way to happiness. they however,engage in whatever they can, as long as 'money go show'.

An old Japanese proverb says,'' Making money is like digging in the sand with a pin ; losing money is like pouring water on the sand''.

It is better you make the money gradually and legally and eventually become rich and successful rather than die in the cause of becoming a 'sudden rich guy'.
#FoodForYourSoul.

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Sunday, May 4, 2014

Meet Akintunde Ahmad, the Nigerian-guy who scored 5.0 GPA. An Inspiration to Nigerian-youths!

An Oakland, California public school kid who has been accepted to three Ivy League schools says he has to carry around proof of his 5.0 GPA and sky high SAT score because he looks like a 'street dude.'
Akintunde Ahmad has his choice of attending Yale, Brown, Columbia or a slew of other prestigious universities but the people he meets don't believe him thanks to the clothes he wears and dreadlocks he sports.
To combat those snap judgments, Ahmad keeps photos of his impressive grades and 2100 SAT score on his phone and can flash them at any disbeliever he wants.
Judgmental: Oakland, California high school senior Akintunde Ahmad was accepted to Yale, Brown and Columbia as well as a slew of other schools but says people won't believe it because of his looks
Judgmental: Oakland, California high school senior Akintunde Ahmad was accepted to Yale, Brown and Columbia as well as a slew of other schools but says people won't believe it because of his looks


Proof: Ahmad carries around proof of his sky high GPA and 2100 SAT score to prove to the judgmental disbelievers
Proof: Ahmad carries around proof of his sky high GPA and 2100 SAT score to prove to the judgmental disbelievers

The 17-year-old Oakland Tech student proudly attests to his lifelong public education and wears the same baseball cap, gold chains, loose clothes and dreadlocks as many of his classmates.
While the outstanding student's record speaks for itself, some believe his appearance says a lot, too. And those folks have been doubting or overlooking him for much of his already accomplished life.
 
Thankfully for the promising teen, others like his Oakland school principal mother have always urged him not to give in to others' doubts.
'Like, my whole life, people have been telling me to stay on this path and everything will fall, the cards will fall like you want them to, so,' Ahmad told KGO.
'Wow! When were you going to tell me?': Ahmad's mother recalls the shock she felt upon hearing her son's SAT score, which he neglected to mention to her
'Wow! When were you going to tell me?': Ahmad's mother recalls the shock she felt upon hearing her son's SAT score, which he neglected to mention to her

Giving him even more reason to gloat: Ahmad is also an accomplished baseball player and plays three instruments. But he manages to stay modest.
His mom Zarina recalled asking ehr son about his SAT score months back.
"'Oh I got it back...I have a 2100"' she recalled him saying. 'I'm like, "Wow! When were you going to tell me?"'
Ahmad has yet to make a decision about which school he's going to choose.
He thinks it will be either Brown or Yale and plans to study pre-law or pre-med.

Inspiring Interview of the Week with our own Shade Oshoba

Inspiring interview of the week
Today, Shade Oshoba is arguably the only female gospel Apala musician in Nigeria.  A seasoned praise-and-worship leader, she started her musical career in a church in Abeokuta, Ogun State in 1998. 
 The mother of two, in this interview with DUPE AYINLA-OLASUNKANMI, of The Nations Newspaper, talks about her efforts to revive Apala music and her love life, among other riveting issues.

GIVEN your status as a married woman and a professional musician, how do you cope with the accompanying challenges?
First of all, I give all glory to God and then, I thank my husband who has been in full support of my career. Usually, when I have an event, he will baby-sit the kids when he is not too busy. And when we both need to be out of the home, we will invite someone to stay with the kids.

How did you win the support of your husband towards your career?
I had been doing music before we met in Ogun State, where I went to perform at a funeral. You know, we Ijebus like to party a lot. He also came to cover the event for the NTA. Ever since then, he has been a good manager and crown (of my head). I describe him as such because he came in at the point I was about giving up on my career. So, I call him my messiah because he came in at the appropriate time.

Was it like the familiar love story or you saw him as an opportunity to raise the bar of your career?
It is in two phases: that is, if I saw him as an opportunity to raise my career or if I truly felt in love for him. First and foremost, when he approached me, we had no plans to date. But as time went on, I naturally fell in love for him, before he eventually proposed to me. Besides, I also saw it as an opportunity to grab him fast before any other girl would get him. Really, if I had not met him, nobody would have heard the name Shade Oshoba. It was not love at first sight. But along the line, it happened. More importantly, it is also the combination of grace and prayer for God to send you your own spouse. It is not easy for a man to see his wife going out and coming back late at night always.

Are you saying your husband has never had cause to be jealous?
You know, men will always be who they are. I would say he is not that bad. Once in a while, men will exhibit their ego. So, whenever I am leaving the house, he would say, “Be careful, especially because of the way you are dressed.” But he has never for once stopped me from going for an event since we got married seven years ago.

Have you been in a situation where he said it is time you played down on your career, so you could focus on the family?
No, hasn’t so far. Besides, I have not gotten there yet. Maybe in the next 30 to 40 years when I’m known all over the world, he might say that. I cannot even resign from this ministry of singing. I will still go to heaven to continue singing. I don’t pray Satan will get into him to the extent that he will tell me to stop singing. I will sing until I’m 80 years old in Jesus name.

Why are you into gospel Apala?
It is just one of the genres that got my attention because it is gradually being buried. The real song that brought me out is Ibi Giga. I am not talking about the sound track for the movie, Ibi Giga. Mine had been released before that one. But because of the movie, it got more popularity than mine. The lyrics and sound were done by a friend. But she said she didn’t want it anymore because she didn’t want to be associated with such music. So, when I got the song, my manager said we should try the song and we did. So, that was how I started getting invites to perform at events. The amazing part of the career is that people who call me for jobs usually tell me to do Apala for them and no other genre of music. So, anywhere I go, people want to listen to that local music from a girl like me. Then, the message is different from the Hip hop. Later, I developed an interest after I carried out a research. I realized that the top musicians in the ’60s and ’70s did more of Apala. And I kind of like it. I think presently I am the only lady doing gospel Apala music. And it is giving me an edge and paving way for me.

Professionally, when did your career kick off and how has the journey been so far?
I would say 2005. Frankly, it was tough at the outset because there was no one to help me. I remember going to some big men to tell them what I wanted to do. They would just ignore me and tell me they had heard me. But eventually when I met my husband, he said we should go into the production of music. We got duped by two hefty guys who are celebrities in this society. I gave up that time and said I wanted to go into acting. But he kept encouraging me. And another issue has to do with the marketers. If you are not known, you will not get a positive response from them. Even if you are well known, 98% of the CDs sold are for them, while the rest is for you. As I told a presenter, I like to start from the scratch and gradually climb up, than to be up so fast and fall, thereby breaking all your bones.

What made you feel you could act?
I can act very well. I have been acting when I was in school and even in church. It is just that I am better at playing comic roles. Whenever I perform at an event, I usually make people laugh first before starting the main show. Presently, people call me for Christian comedy movies and shows. But I just knew that I wanted to come out through music. I didn’t want to come out with theatre, where they will ask you to do this and that. When I am well established, I can go into movie production and there wouldn’t be need for anybody to say what do you have under there?

How do you cope with your male admirers?
I have been coping and will continue to cope with them as long as I keep ‘posting’ and ‘scoping’ them. It is easy because I get a lot of admirers every day. But I have been ‘scoping’ them because if you are too harsh on them, they will hate you. That is applying wisdom. They already know I am married with kids. Even when I was pregnant, they would tell me it did not matter. But there are some that I have to be blunt with. Honestly, my admirers are those helping me most because they will call and say: “Somebody needs you, even if you are not serious with us”; and I will just do all sorts of jokes and they will forget about it. It is not a crime. Any day I go out and I don’t get a compliment, then, there is something wrong. I went for an event and my phone was off; I activated the call divert to my husband. So, when I came back, he said someone had been calling, but he won’t talk when he picked. And I said it must be one of my admirers. So, that is how free I am with my husband. I always tell my female fans to always pray for a husband like Jesus. Mine husband is like that. I pray in the next 50years, he will still be like that. No man can stomach most things that he reads and sees on my phone. But he is just a different species of man. A friend was telling me that he could do more and I told him to shut up. What breaks his heart most is when I go out and I don’t talk to him. Let God keep him for me.

How have you been able to keep trim, after two kids?
I was very slim before I got married. But you know, it is natural for a lady to add some weight when she starts consuming those natural things that God has deposited in your husband. But it is now left for you to know how to manage those natural resources. On my stature, I decided not to be taking some foods. It is not that they are not sweet or palatable, but I said to myself that at my 50th birthday, I want to be the way I am. After my wedding, my aunt said to my husband that, if he feeds me well, I will turn out to be like her. In my heart, I just said, ‘God forbid’. I don’t take ice cream, cakes and a whole lot of things like that. I’m not flamboyant when it comes to maintaining my body and things that I put on.

How did your parents react when they knew you were going into music?
I never had the opportunity to sit them down and say I wanted to be a musician. What I can remember about this issue is the day I was watching my favourite idol singing on TV, Salawa Abeni. I didn’t know my dad had come in calling me. So, the next thing I heard was a very big slap from behind. Also, I remember a day he said: “You have always wanted to be a pilot; do you still want to be one?” I said I was still thinking about it, that I would love to be a musician. Ha, that day, I didn’t eat! He complained that I wanted to waste his money and threatened to kill me. And that was how the fear came in. But he died before I graduated from the university. But I have always loved music from my childhood.

Has any of your kids shown interest in music?
My girl love singing. My first daughter composed her first song at the age of three. Though we will still be the one to arrange the lyrics, it was a happy moment for me. I was not around when she did the song, but when I got home, my husband just called me and asked me to listen to the song. He said she kept singing the song over and over, so he decided to record it. And I was like my music will not die.

How is your album faring in the market?
I have learnt my lesson not to give up again on myself. And most time when I go to an event, I sell my albums in thousands, depending on the gathering and place. I have been to Alaba, but what I was told to bring was unbelievable. I was asked to bring N50, 000 and a very expensive gin, which is sold for N15,000 or N25, 000. They are said I should go and print 10,000 copies with my money. So, I have been selling my albums because of that experience.

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Saturday, May 3, 2014

How Borno Governor caused kidnap of Chibok schoolgirls – WAEC


Borno Governor, Kashim Shettima
“The Borno state government also refused to relocate the students from Chibok to safer places like Maiduguri.”

#BringbackOurGirls#
It takes more than nine months to conceive and deliver a baby.
Mothers go through pains bringing-forth future leaders,but those who abduct our girls do not care to consider the travails of our women for a sec.
definitely,there are sponsors. may god unveil your hidden faces.
*** Breaking News*******

Read this:


The kidnap of over 250 schoolgirls in Chibok may not have occurred if the Borno State Government had heeded the advice of an examination body, fresh facts have emerged.
Aware of the poor security situation in Borno and worried about the safety of students, the West African Examination Council, WAEC, declined to conduct its Senior School Certificate Examination in unsafe parts of Borno, including Chibok.
But that was until the state governor, Kashim Shettima, assured of adequate security measures, an official has said.
The head of WAEC’s National Office in Nigeria, Charles Eguridu, stated this on Friday night in Abuja while answering questions from several women including First Lady Patience Jonathan, wives of state governors, female legislators at federal and state levels, and leaders of various women organizations.
The Borno State Commissioner of Women Affairs, Inna Galadima, stood in for the wife of the Borno Governor, Nana Shettima.
The event was organised by Mrs. Jonathan at the First Lady’s conference room, Presidential Villa, Abuja.
Mr. Eguridu said WAEC was initially reluctant to conduct its examination in Chibok and other troubled areas of the north-east because of the security challenges but had to buckle when Mr. Shettima assured the Council, in writing, that adequate security would be provided.
“Following the previous experience, we were afraid to go to the North-East this year, yet we risked it and asked for extra security through the Minister of Education, Nyesom Wike,” the official said. “We also asked the various state governments to relocate all the centres to the state capitals where there would be adequate security.”
“The three governors did not respond to our request but instead said they had made adequate security arrangements. The Borno state government also refused to relocate the students from Chibok to safer places like Maiduguri,” Mr. Eguridu told the women on Friday.
The WAEC official reportedly tendered the letters written to the governors of Adamawa, Borno, and Yobe to prove his claim.
He also told the women that another factor that influenced WAEC’s decision to ask that all centres be moved to the state capitals was the death of three of its staff while conducting a similar examination in a school along the Yola-Maiduguri road, last year.
Schools in Borno had been shut following the various attacks by the extremist Boko Haram sect.
PREMIUM TIMES had reported how the state government, in a bid to ensure its students do not miss the SSCE examinations, asked final year secondary school students to resume studies.
The Borno governor, who initially declined transferring the final year students from centres in remote areas like Chibok to the state capital, finally agreed to do so after the kidnap, Mr. Eguridu said.
“Borno state government only agreed to relocate the remaining 189 pupils after the abduction of the girls,” he said.
The Borno Government is yet to react to WAEC’s claim. The Borno Education Commissioner, Musa Inuwa Kubo, did not answer or return calls made to his phone and was yet to reply to a text message enquiry as at the time of publishing this report.
The actual student figure
The WAEC boss also provided what appears the clearest clarification yet of the number of students in the Chibok school before the April 14 kidnap.
“Overall, 530 students registered for WAEC at the Chibok centre, 135 males and 395 girls,” the official said.
Mr. Eguridu provided the bio data, including photographs of all the 530 students that registered at the Chibok centre.
The centre was the Government Secondary School, Chibok, and was used as centre by both the students of the school and those of smaller villages in Chibok Local Government.
The actual number of girls still with the kidnappers is yet to be ascertained, although the school, the state government and the police all gave figures above 200.
About 50 of the girls initially declared missing have been reunited with their families with many of those escaping from their abductors.
Although the school is a mixed school, boarding facilities are only available for girls; which explains why they were the only ones in the dormitory when the suspected Boko Haram members arrived on the night of April 14.
To be able to ascertain the actual number of girls in the dormitory when the kidnap occurred and the number of girls still missing, the women, at the end of their meeting, resolved to invite all those involved in the administration of the school to Abuja to explain what actually happened.
Women vow more action
While speaking after the meeting, Mrs. Jonathan vowed to do everything possible to ensure the release of the girls.
“If they don’t release our girls, then they should be ready to kidnap me,” she said.
“If after three days the children are not released, we shall march to Borno. We shall march to Borno Governor, then to Senate President, David Mark, and the President of this country to tell them the truth,” Mrs. Jonathan said.
In a communique at the end of their deliberations, the women said they would do all within their powers to ensure that the girls are rescued from their abductors.
In the communiqué, the women stated:
“For us to provide the necessary solution, there are pertinent questions that we must ask and these include the followings:
“We are asking these questions so as not to rely on the rumours flying around. So we want to do a thorough job as women and concerned mothers.
“When we are through with these efforts, we may need to approach our elders in the north, the National Assembly and all those concerned to help us put an end to the killing of our husbands, our children and our people.
“We heard that all federal schools were closed in the state, but the Chibok school, which is a state school. Why will a state school be opened without providing adequate security while all other schools were closed?
“We also heard that WAEC was conducting exams when the students were abducted, so this meeting resolved that there will be a committee to be Chaired by the Borno State Governor’s wife.”
The women said members of the committee will include the wife of the senator representing the senatorial zone where Chibok is located, the wife of the member representing Chibok federal constituency, wife of the Chibok local government chairman, wife of the minister representing Borno State, and wife of the Chibok Village head.
The committee is expected to come along with the Chibok school principal, the security guard at the school, at least two teachers from the school, two teachers invigilating the WAEC examinations in the school, two matrons, as well as chairman and secretary of the school’s Parents Teachers Association.
The committee is also expected to come along with two parents whose children are still missing, two parents whose children escaped from the Boko Haram insurgents and two students that managed to escape, whose identity would be protected by the women.
The school principal was also asked to appear with the school’s register and the passport pictures of each of the missing girls.
“We also want to see the Chairman of Chibok Local Government, the Borno State Commissioner for Education, the WAEC Registrar, the Borno State Police Commissioner, and the Divisional Police Officer DPO of Chibok0”, the women said.
The women, at the Friday night meeting, also resolved to take more actions if the girls are not found.
“If the girls are not found by Sunday night, then we shall go to the Governor of Borno State first, the Senate President and later the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, led by the Mother of the Nation, Dame Patience Jonathan,” they said.
The women’s meeting continues on Sunday by 4:00 p.m.

Sunday, April 27, 2014

Leave the world a bit better!

                                                   

Happy New Week to you all.

This week's Inspirational food-for-thought is titled, 'Leave the world a bit better'.

So many people want to experience successful and fulfilling lives but most likely a few are thinking of leaving an indelible mark for the next generation to behold and enjoy,while others are just living for today and today alone.

No matter what we enjoy today, it will somewhat become histories tomorrow, however, if you live today to create a rewarding tomorrow,the yesterday-to-be will somehow slip into  the future and still be relevant.
Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote clearly an inspirational poem that elaborate today's topic.

'' When the tide goes out, there is a water mark where the water was,

When the waters of life recede from the shore of my being and my heart

pumps for the last time, my desire is that there will be a mark where I stood.

My aim is that the mark will say, 'For some decades a man occupied this

space who saw others more important than himself and afforded to leave

the world a better place for them and those yet to come'''.

In conclusion, Live your life today as though you've seen the price for a life well lived.

Joseph Adeiye
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Saturday, April 26, 2014

How To Keep Your Dreams Alive.


How To Keep Your Dreams Alive.

 As Anais Nin states, “Dreams are necessary for life.” They add value to our lives and to the lives of others. But dreams are also like a flickering candle. A gentle breeze or unexpected draft can easily snuff it out. The fragile flame which represents our desires needs to be protected to remain burning. However, weaknesses such as feelings of inadequacy, fear of failure, and poor association can easily blow out our ambitions, resulting in wasted potential and unrealized dreams. What can we do to protect our goals from our frailties?
We all know human frailty is part of life. However, HOW we handle discoveries about ourselves is key. The wise person seeks the truth and allows themselves to receive feedback from a trusted source-their own self. Through self-observation, we can recognize and audit areas of counterproductive behavior. What is the purpose of a self-audit? The purpose of a self- audit is to verify information about ourselves and to assess whether our actions are moving us toward or away from our stated goals. Do a realistic self-audit. How can I better support my passions? What patterns of behavior do I exhibit that sabotage my goals? What areas of self doubt is an obstacle to my desires? As I look at my daily schedule, am I making the realization of my dreams a priority? Asking these questions will help you clarify steps you need to take to keep your dreams alive. Below are a few areas to consider as you do a self-audit.

I. Feelings of Inadequacy Feelings of inadequacy or insecurity can easily delay or halt a dream. We can second guess or dismiss the validity of our talents which often results in apathy and procrastination, making our dreams out of reach. At a recent Christmas get-together, I listened as my uncle sipped scotch between his words as if to buffer the impact of his realizations. “Rozzie,” he said, “I finally realized, after hearing time and time again from parents, teachers and students that I’m a great substitute teacher, Gee, just maybe they see something in me I don’t. Maybe I should accept the fact that I can teach, and stop berating myself.” I eagerly shook my head in agreement. How sad, I thought. Lost in insecurity, my uncle has wasted so much time; he could have accepted his teaching gift long ago and developed it. Life might have turned out different for him. Maybe he could have been a professor at a prestigious university by now.
Entertaining feelings of inadequacy can cripple our progress towards our dreams. If you struggle with feelings of inadequacy here are a few suggestions: Although feelings of inadequacy can run deep, decide to accept it as part of your reality as you move towards your desires, rather than compound these feelings through denying or resisting them. Rehearse this axiom: “What is, is.” If you feel fear before a job interview, accept that. If self-conscious feelings surface as you confront your boss, acknowledge that.
It will take the edge off these feelings. Secondly, apply “reality-based” thinking to your negative thoughts. Our interior world dictates our outer circumstances. Negative thoughts such as, “I’ll never amount to anything,” can result in a sense of hopelessness and apathy. It can easily result in a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead, identify your negative thinking. You might want to write it in a journal. “I’ll never amount to anything.” Write how that makes you feel. Anxious? Fearful? Despairing? Now talk back to this thought by being more rational. Perhaps you can write in your journal, “I’ve accomplished some things–I worked hard and three years ago I finished college. I have a job that pays the bills. People say I’m a good teacher…” Now assess how you feel. Are your negative feelings less intense? Good! This powerful tool helps us see ourselves more realistically. Try it. Managing our thoughts is a major key in attaining our desires.

 2. Learn How to Fail Well: Failure is the flip side of success. But too often, we personalize failure, attributing it to our character. What lethal thinking! Once we see ourselves as failures it becomes a smoke screen in dealing with problems, and overcoming them. Inherent in failure are lessons to help us reach success. We simply need to listen to the correction, seek out others who can help us, implement new behaviors, and as a result, personally and professionally grow. Use failure to your advantage.

 3. Positive Associations Associations are key to success:
 Positive relationships are uplifting and inspirational; we renew our energy and motivation in the presence of such people. However, there are other relationships that leave us emotionally and even physically drained. Perhaps, such a friend is critical of your aspirations or depressive.
If you feel a knot in your stomach around certain friends, it might be a signal to precede cautiously. Spend less time with energy-draining friends or family members. Protecting your energy in order to pursue your goals, and coupling with like-minded ambitious people opens the doors to greater success. Inherent in our goals is a better quality of life for ourselves and others. Protect them. By assessing our weaknesses and planning to deal with them, we are keeping our dreams alive, and making them a reality. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/1823300